boldpleasures Manifesto


a written statement declaring publicly the intentions, motives, or views of its issuer

  • Everybody deserves the opportunity to be his or her truest self
  • Don’t harm, even when you hurt
  • Practice risk-aware consensual kink
  • Respect limits–those of others as well as your own
  • Use safe words
  • Be responsible for your own mental and physical well-being, independent of the role you play
  • There is no “one true way”
  • Your kink isn’t my kink, but your kink is okay
  • Do not be embarrassed
  • Ditch shame
  • The world is ready for kink to step out of the closet
  • We recognize that basic sexual education needs are unmet
  • We know that our lifestyle is ok
  • We are kink educators and leaders
  • We will bring a fundamental shift
  • We give you the words and lift you up
  • You are not alone
  • Enjoy
  • We are your safe place