Should I Let My Dom(me) Help Me With (Self) Discipline?
Self-discipline, self-appreciation and help of a Dom(me) This week Hans answers a reader's question...
Hi Hans, I want to ask my Dom(me) to help me...
About Love & Rules
The other day I came across a post on fetlife by petroglyph about love and rules. She talked in a beautiful way about the...
Are we Going for Love or Divorce?
For me, the goal of relationship coaching is: “It’s about bringing back respect, tension and love in the relation. Or keeping the mutual respect...
Freedom & Relationship Rules (Wait, Rules?)
The BDSM people amongst us probably will start smiling a bit when they read this headline. But I don’t really want to talk about...
When Should I Bring Up Polyamory?
A Love Triangle
Anonymous asks (on Tumblr):
I’m dating and I’m wondering when I should bring up polyamory? I’m kind of afraid to bring it up...
Questions to Ask in a BDSM Relationship When Trying to Get...
Whether you are in a steady D/s relationship, follow the BDSM lifestyle in an open relationship with different play partners or are in a...
BDSM & Family Life: Parents Have to Be Equals
If you’ve followed our blog for a while, you will know that we are adamant about there not being a ‘one true way’ in...
The Triangular Theory of Love
In relationship coaching, I encounter this question regularly: “Do I actually love my partner?... What is love anyway?”
As an answer to this question I...
A Real Sub or Slave Would Do it & Other Nonsense
A Real sub or slave Would Do it for her Mistress ..
In almost every case, people with a bit of self-control and common sense...
How Do I Find a Dominant Partner (in a Nice Way)?
Reader Question: BDSM might be an exciting world, but I do wonder what is the best way to find a playing partner?
Imagine; you’re...